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01 June 2017

Forgiveness?



Forgiveness
Unforgiveness and forgiveness may be the most critical issues in anyone's life. Dr. Alex Loyd, the founder of the Healing Codes, says that in all the years that he was lecturing and counseling he had never seen a significant health issue where there was not an unforgiveness problem. Then he met Dr. Ben Johnson, who had been lecturing all over the world on cancer, and Dr. Ben said that he'd never seen cancer where there was not an unforgiveness problem. Dr. Alex and Dr. Ben note that they have talked to ministers, doctors, therapists, and Practitioners of all types who also shared that they have seen unforgiveness at the root of just about every problem they've ever experienced.

Now here's a secret about unforgiveness: it often hides behind anger, fear, sadness, and other things like that. So if you think you don't have unforgiveness issues ask yourself, "Who do I feel some anger related to, or sadness, or fear?" You'll usually find unforgiveness at the bottom of those things. Unforgiveness issues can be toward self.

They can be toward other people. They can be toward God. Or, they can be in reverse of that. They can be feeling like God has not or will not forgive you. Feeling like other people have not forgiven you whether they have or not. Any of those can be the crucial cellular memory that blocks our health or blocks our success. This unforgiveness and the memories that contain this unforgiveness block our healing. They block our success. Why? Because they are destructive memories that are not truth and love. They are lies and selfishness.

It's interesting too, that the actual word "forgiveness" if you look back to the original language means to "cut the rope" or "untie the rope." So unforgiveness means we are literally tied to the thing or the person that we refuse to forgive. Even if the person is not willing to forgive us, we can cut that rope. The Unforgiveness Category can be absolutely huge.

The foundation for an abundant life of love, joy and peace is forgiveness. Healing unforgiveness is absolutely essential for healing and for success.
 
Healthy Actions
Harmful Actions are desires and behaviors we continue to repeat even though they take us further away from what we want in life. What determines whether an action is healthy or not is the reason why we do it. If our success goals are motivated by selfishness or fear, it will be difficult, if not impossible for us to find lasting joy and fulfillment in success.

Establishing a foundation of healthy actions based on healthy goals and healthy choices leads to living your life in truth and love and thus there is no limit to the success you can achieve and the abundance you can attract.
 
Transforming beliefs
If you are familiar with the Healing Codes, you know that we believe that stress causes illness and disease as Dr. Bruce Lipton, cellular biologist at Stanford University found. He also found that the thing that always causes stress is a wrong belief. Now those wrong beliefs are embedded in our cellular memories. Dr. Lipton goes on to say that if you can heal that wrong belief, the stress goes away and the immune system in the body can heal everything even genetic illnesses and disease. We also believe that when you heal the stress of wrong beliefs and replace them with Transforming Beliefs, then you also heal the thing that is blocking the success and prosperity in life. Why? Because stress drains your energy and it dumbs you down and it causes you to come at everything from a negative perspective. Well, how in the world are you going to be successful when you can't think straight, you don't have any energy and you're coming at everything from a negative perspective? Every negative thing flows from fear.

And the wrong belief, according to Dr. Lipton's research, causes us to be afraid when we should not be afraid. So what comes from fear? Anger, sadness, depression, manipulation, dishonesty, every crime that is ever committed., as well as fear of success, fear of failure, fear of other things. So this category can absolutely change your life.

Some of the unhealthy beliefs are: "I'm unlovable. I'm insignificant. I'm flawed. I'm hopeless. I'm worthless. Something bad is going to happen. Something must change right now for me to be okay. People are going to take advantage of me. I am bad. I'm not good enough. I'm unforgivable. People are out to get me. I must be in control. It's not fair. People must think well of me for me to be okay. I can't do it. I'm not capable. Others should do it for me."

Those are the unhealthy beliefs that block us from living the life we want to live. And that, when they are healed, can change our lives forever. Because those wrong beliefs create stress that causes every problem that we have: illness and disease, failure, lack of finances, poor relationships, you name it.

Let's look at the Transforming beliefs. I am lovable. I am significant. I'm whole. I'm a person of worth regardless of my circumstances or what anybody else thinks. I have unbounded hope for the future. Wonderful things are in store for me. My future is not tied to the past. I am free. I am always okay. Even though I'm always learning, growing and getting better, I am satisfied and content right now. I love everyone. Everyone is different, but all have worth and value. I will receive all good things by surrendering to love and truth. I can lay down control. I don't have to try to be someone I'm not in order to be loved. I will believe and live the truth of who I am. I am capable. I can do it. I don't have to get others to do it for me. I have a say over my life.

Which of these beliefs would you rather hold? How would you rather live? Well, that is why we want to heal those destructive beliefs, and to infuse the healthy ones. We promise you, if you do that in just this category, you will never, ever, ever be the same.
 
Success Foundation Codes and Success Building Codes
The first three facets of the Success Codes are called the Foundations for Success because they are the foundation for building a life based on love, joy and peace. They are Forgiveness, Healthy Actions, and Transforming Beliefs.


The nine Success Building Codes are aimed at helping you bring your every goal and dream into harmony as you operate from integrity.
 
Love
The Love that builds success is altruistic, honest, generous and compassionate. At the base is love for yourself and then building relationships based in compassion and respect.

In this category are the negative experiences of unforgiveness, a feeling of insignificance and resentment.

The damaging action is selfishness (which is not the same as loving yourself).

The limiting beliefs are: I am unlovable. I am insignificant. I am flawed.

When you use the Block Breaker Code you can focus on the experiences, actions and ideas that correct the negative issues you've identified.

The positive experiences are: forgiveness, significance, compassion and empathy.

The transforming beliefs are: I am lovable. I am significant. I am whole.

The healthy actions are: Loving myself and others, and being committed to the truth.

We want to get rid of the negatives and infuse the positives so that we can live lives filled with love, and truth.
 
Joy
Joy may include happiness, but it is much more than happiness. Happiness often depends on external circumstances, whereas joy is an internal state. The positive energy of joy attracts positive people and circumstances to it.

The negative experiences are: sadness, depression, feeling inferior, worthless, and flawed.

The limiting beliefs: I am hopeless. I am worthless. Life is hopeless.

The positive experiences are: happiness, excitement, exhilaration, confidence, strength, wholeness and self-worth.

The healthy actions are: Being motivated by truth and love in everything I do. Believing in my power to start each day anew.

The transforming beliefs are: I am a person of worth regardless of any circumstances. I have unbounded hope for the future.

So the negative experiences and limiting beliefs are what The Block Breaker Codes work on in this category to remove stress and destructive memories in those areas. The Success Code infuses the positive energy of joy with the sense of hope, gratitude and the possibility of everyday miracles.
 
Peace
Of all the positive aspects of The Codes: Forgiveness, Healthy Beliefs, Joy, Love, Patience, etc, peace is the only one that you really can't manufacture by your own will power. Peace is the test. Peace is the indicator of whether you have destructive memories or healthy ones or both about any issue. Try it. Think about almost any issue in your life and judge by the peace that you feel whether you have negative or positive stuff about that. It absolutely works.

The opposite of peace is anxiety, fear, or worry. Tom Brokaw, a former televisions news announcer once said, "Anxiety is the issue of our age." This category is designed to heal those cellular memories and the stress that create anxiety, worry, and fear.

The negative experiences are: anxiety, and worry.

The limiting beliefs are: Something bad is going to happen. The future will be like the past. I am not okay.

The positive experiences are: a sense of peace and restfulness; that indescribable feeling that everything is OK, just the way it should be.

The transforming beliefs are: Wonderful things are in store for me. My future is not tied to the past. I am free. I am always okay.

The positive aspects: that wonderful feeling that all is okay. Wow, don't we all wish we had that day in and day out? Well, you can. Restfulness. The healthy actions of seeking win/win situations in my relationships and all my dealings. Focusing on good things that are related to the future, not the bad things of the past. Focusing on the present. Pay attention to Peace as an indicator of where you are in not only this category but any category. It's a wonderful, wonderful tool. It's kind of like the flashing light on your dashboard that tells you "Oh oh! I've got destructive memories about this because my peace is gone." You can use that as a very helpful tool.
 
Patience
This is a crucial category because the body system that is affected by the non-physical cellular memories and stress in this category is the immune system. And if you've heard Dr. Ben Johnson and Dr. Loyd speak you know that the key to healing anything, including success issues or relationship issues, is that the immune system is working the way it's supposed to. Patience issues tend to directly impact the immune system in our experience.

Patience really tells us a lot of times if we have good goals or bad goals. Here's how. The evidence that you have a wrong goal is anger. Where does anger come from? Impatience. That's the number one emotion related to this category. What's a good goal and what's a bad goal? A good goal is one that is rooted in truth and love. A bad goal is one that rooted in selfishness, fear and deception.

Here's how this all ties together. If your goal is based in truth and love and it doesn't happen, you're not going to be angry because the whole thing was about truth and love. You may say it's about truth and love when really it's not. It's really about selfishness and fear and deception. Then, if that goal becomes blocked, you will get angry. If it's truly focused in truth and love, you weren't in it for the result anyway because truth and love it not about results. Truth and love is about the process. It's about doing what is truthful, loving myself and the people around me right now, not about the result. Impatience, and the thing that comes from impatience, anger is a pretty good indicator of having a wrong goal in the first place. I become angry or impatient when that goal is blocked.

Patient people know that achieving a goal can take time. A block in this area can make it difficult to pay attention to detail.

The negative experiences are: impatience, anger, frustration, insecurity, desire for love substitutes. Love substitute is something we settle for because we don't believe we're going to get what we really want right now which is love. A love substitute can be anything; reading a book, eating an ice-cream cone. Those things aren't bad, but if they're done for a love substitute they're bad.

The limiting belief is: Something has to change right now for me to be okay.

The positive experiences: contentment, satisfaction, security.

The healthy actions content to wait for something better and be able to wait in peace.

The transforming belief: Even though I'm always growing, learning and getting better I am satisfied and content right now.

Healing the destructive memories in this category means that you don't have to wait for tomorrow in order to be okay. You don't have to have this or that in order to be okay. You're okay right now. In order to live that we've got to get rid of those negative things we're believing that are lies and fear based and selfish and infuse the love and truthful positive.
 
Kindness
The biggest issues of our life that drive everything else either in a good way or in a bad way are our identity issues; who we believe we are. Am I good? Am I bad? Can I do it? Can I not do it? Are other people going to love me? Are they not? Am I attractive, unattractive? All of those "I am.." things and a lot of "Others are.." things and how those two interact are the focus of this category.

Kindness and the next category, Goodness are the two identity categories. As these two categories go, very often that's how you go. People with abusive situations who have grown up in very difficult, traumatic situations, many times need to spend a mountain of time in the Kindness category because that's where rejection is. Rejection, in our opinion, is the single biggest issue any of us have in our life. The thing we need most is love and the thing that makes us most feel unloved and unlovable is rejection and perceived rejection. You can't control what happened when you were younger. But we can still heal that and you have the life you would have had if you had been treated in that wonderful, kind way. Take time to take care of yourself and value others. So these are critical categories.

The negative experiences of this category: rejection, hurt, fear (fear comes from hurt and rejection).

The limiting beliefs: People will take advantage of me, if you have been rejected. People are too sensitive, if you are the one who rejects others.

The positive experiences: Total and unconditional acceptance of myself and others.

The healthy actions: A smiling face.

The transforming beliefs: I love everyone. Everyone is different but all have worth and value. I want more truth and love relationships.

It is very important to clear out these destructive cellular memories. We need to defuse our destructive identities and infuse loving, truthful, healthy identities that help us heal help us achieve the success we want in life.
 
Goodness
This is the second category of the two identity categories of The Codes. This one, if you have a problem with category number 7, Kindness, which is also the rejection category, you're almost certainly going to have a problem in this category which is Goodness. Almost everyone who has been rejected believes they are bad or that they are not good enough.

Dr, Loyd says: "Tracey, my wife, who was clinically depressed for twelve years, is one of the best people I have ever known and just about everybody that knows her says that too. But she felt bad, like she had her whole life because the message she got growing up was that if she was not perfect, then she wouldn't be loved. So one little tiny thing for her made her feel like she was bad. And of course that's not the truth." We need to clear away those cellular memories and that stress that they cause.

The negative experiences are: fear, and shame.

The limiting beliefs are: I am bad or I am not good enough. I am unforgivable.

The positive experiences are: thankfulness and gratitude.

The healthy actions: Looking for the good-always.

The transforming beliefs are: I am good, forgiven, clean, and built for love.

These are two huge categories, Kindness and Goodness. If we're going to make any headway with our success and with our health, we have to heal our identity. We have to believe the truth about who we are instead of the lies from our faulty programming.
 
Trust
This category is critical for so many reasons. It is the category of belief. Anything is possible if you believe. We always do what we believe 100% of the time. In our opinion there are three aspects of belief: faith, trust and hope.

Faith is based on what has happened in the past. It affects whether we're going to have faith in ourselves, in other people, in circumstances, in God, in government. We base so many things on our past experiences. Those experiences have great control over what we do now and what we plan for the future because they are based on what's happened in the past.

Trust is what we believe about what's happening in our lives right now. "Am I safe? Am I not safe? Am I happy? Am I at peace? Am I in danger? What do I need to be doing now? Can I do it?"

Hope is the third aspect of belief. It is focused in the future. All of these work together. We can't have hope if we don't have faith. If our past is all messed up and is all negative and full of trauma and depression and anxiety and all that sort of thing, then we're not going to be very hopeful about the future. We're going to tend to think that our future will be like the past.

Healing these beliefs affects all three. It affects faith, trust and hope. It affects your past, your present and your future. As we're defusing our destructive memories, deprogramming, reprogramming our destructive memories, we're actually changing our past. You've heard the thing, "Perception is everything." We believe that to a point. All our memories are perceptions. A lot of our memories are not true. They're full of lies. What we remember as truth may not even be what happened. We don't believe that perception is everything because there is truth. There is something that actually happened. The sun is either out today or it's not. I'm either here or I'm not. Yes, perception is huge and reality is huge, too.

The negative experiences of this category: distrust and being judgmental.

The damaging action: attempts to pull others down.

The limiting beliefs are: People are out to get me. I must be in control. It's not fair.

The positive experiences are: faith in the past, trust in the present and hope in the future.

The healthy actions: Believing in truth and love always. Being non-judgmental.

The transforming beliefs are: I will receive all good things by surrendering to love and truth. I can lay down control.

A note on control: Is some control good? Yes. There are some areas that are really good for us to control. But, we are supposed to be trusting people as far as our relationships. You can't love without trust. If you can't trust, you probably can't love either. They go hand in hand. A controlling person is not a loving one. It's one that will rub other people the wrong way almost 100% of the time given enough time. We want to love, not control at least in the unhealthy way.

If you can master this category, heal the negative, and instill the positive, the trust, belief, faith and hope, this can release tremendous power in your life for success and health. You might consider this one of the major power categories. We all want power which leads to results. This is a power category.
 
Humility
We believe that Humility is one of the most misunderstood things in life. We tend to think that it's someone who always has their head bowed down, who doesn't stick up for themselves. We do not believe that's what humility is. We believe that humility really is about believing the truth about who you are. In other words it's a direct result of the Kindness and Goodness categories that are the identity categories. As those two categories go, so will Humility. Humility is not being arrogant and conceited and always trying to force my way and stuff like that. We always think of that. Also, it's not believing that I'm inferior and that you're better than me or that I can't do what you can do. I can't succeed and be successful. Being humble does not mean I can't be a performer or someone that does stuff up front. Humility means that I believe exactly the truth about who I am. I'm not better than anybody else. I'm not worse than anybody else. I can do anything that I'm called to do in truth and love. Humility is believing the truth that you are a person of value and worth and you can do great things in your life, whatever those great things are that you are called to, that you are not inferior to anybody but also that you are not superior. So you should embrace everyone in love and truth. That's what humility really is. If we have true humility, which means believing the truth about who I am, the next category Self Control, becomes easy. This is the key to the next category.

The negative experiences are: guilt, shame, wrongful pride.

The damaging actions: Taking whatever means are necessary to get people to think a certain way about me; manipulating people to get what I want and need.

The limiting belief: People must think well of me for me to be okay.

The positive experiences are: My belief in the true identity of myself and others. I believe the truth about myself and that allows me to love.

The healthy actions: Loving people and seeking the truth.

The transforming belief: I don't have to try to be someone I'm not in order to be loved. I will believe and live the truth of who I am.

If I'm really living in the Humility category the way I should be, it doesn't matter what anybody thinks of me. Yea, sure, it's nice if they think good stuff. I don't care. That's not what is motivating and driving me. I just want to live in truth and love and do what I need to do in my life.
 
Self-Control
This one is an issue for almost everybody. We want to have self control and we have to have self control to accomplish just about anything in our life as far as success and healing. Here's the ironic part. The self control flows naturally out of giving up control.

It is doing what we want to do and what takes us toward love, and our goals, and our dreams, and our visions, and not doing the things that we shouldn't do that will keep us from those goals and dreams.

The virtue obviously is self-control but it can be either side. Self-control means balance. It doesn't mean what we think of when we normally think of self-control, which is, "Ok, I'm going to pull myself up by my bootstraps and I'm going to…" That's really not what it means. The healthier place is to give up control and go into trust, but there are things that we have to do and things that we don't do. The key is where is it flowing from? If it's flowing from the right place, which is truth and love and belief, and the power that comes from those things, then the self-control will be easy. It will flow; it will not be onerous or burdensome kind of thing. It will be natural and will feel right and will not be like pushing a rock up hill. However, if we are coming from a place of fear and believing untruths about our self and our world and our circumstances, then trying to have appropriate balance and self-control will be very difficult, and it will be like pushing a rock up hill and we'll usually push it so far up hill and that rock will roll back down the hill and it will roll over us right at the first on the way down. We will be frustrated and bloodied and bruised and our natural inclination will be, "Boy, I sure don't want to do that again." Self-control means balance, coming from a place of love and truth and belief.

The negative experiences are: laziness, entitlement, and helplessness.

The damaging actions: manipulation, deceit, giving up.

The limiting beliefs: I can't do it, I'm not capable, others should do it for me, and it's not fair.

The positive experiences: Quiet confidence.

The healthy actions are: positive actions empowered by truth and love and my calling in life.

The transforming beliefs are: I am capable. I can do it. I don't have to get others to do it for me. I have a say over my life.

Dr. Loyd comments on the two aspects of self-control: "Tracey, my wife, grew up believing, "I can't do it, and I'm not capable." I grew up more with the "others should do it for me," the entitlement. But both of those are paralyzing. So Tracey's natural tendency was to be a perfectionist out of that, to try to do it all perfectly in order to get love, even though she didn't believe that she could. I would tend to be lazy and try to get others to do it for me. But those are both manifestations of the same self-control problem, but the self-control itself is a symptom that tells what is going on in our life. That's coming out of believing the truth about myself and my life and my world and coming from a place of love, and joy, and peace, and truth. If I'm not doing self-control things in balance it means I'm coming from the place of fear and untruth.
Internal States
Many success programs focus mainly on the "external trappings" of success: wealth, possessions, social approval, status, etc., and neglect the internal states that are the true movers to and measures of success. To us, relying on external factors is like spending all our time polishing the outside of a vehicle hoping that will get us what we want. That time and effort would be better spent on the 'engine' that propels us forward and closes the gap between us and our success. The Success Codes Program can help you focus on the internal states of love, peace and joy that often influence our success.

As Dr. Loyd says, "For 3 years, I searched all over to find a success program to refer our Healing Code clients to because so many were asking for that after their health issue healed. I couldn't find a single one that worked consistently. I then discovered why. According to research out of Stanford Medical School (Bruce Lipton, Ph.D.), if you are trying to heal old negative cycles in your life through willpower, your odds of success are approximately one in a million. Research from Harvard (Dan Gilbert, Ph.D.) found that "expectations are a happiness killer, because the instant you focus on external expectations as your goal, you have just put yourself into a chronic state of stress, until you achieve that thing or not." Virtually every program I could find instructed people to do one or both of these things in order to become successful – to have external expectations, and use willpower to make them happen. So, I was then not surprised to learn from industry experts and insiders that there is an approximate 97% failure rate in the success/self-help industry. They are literally teaching people how to fail, not how to succeed."

In contrast, true success requires 3 things every time. 1. You must deprogram failure routines (much like computer viruses, but inside the person). 2. You must reprogram (similar to computer software) for success. Both 1 and 2 have to be done "automatically" in the unconscious and subconscious. They cannot usually be done by willpower. Both 1 and 2 are focused on the internal state, from which true success comes, not external expectations, which produce failure. 3. You must overlay a conscious blueprint that is based on what Dr. Loyd calls the "Spiritual Laws of Nature" (these are not religious laws), which you cannot violate and get away with it any more than you can violate gravity by jumping off a building and get away with it.

If you successfully accomplish all 3, success happens virtually every time. In fact, you will tend to become successful even if you try not to because you are now "programmed for success". This brand of success, in our experience, is typically beyond and better than what the person had imagined – it is the perfect success for that person.

Success is a journey rather than a single point destination. To us, enjoying the journey makes embarking on more journeys possible and attractive. Improving the conditions of our internal states is like having a vehicle that will function well as the environments change, as they inevitably do in daily life. None of us wants our internal states to be 'slamming on the brakes', urging us to go off-track, giving us wrong directions or telling us to quit because we just don't have what it takes to be successful.

In the Success Codes Program you will find that we believe that success is the internal states of love, joy, peace, goodness, trust, etc. The Success Codes Program can help you remove the blocks to success and enhance these positive internal states.

We believe that the reason why many traditional goal setting processes fail is because they fail to consider the most important parts of goal setting. The Success Codes Program asks you to consider whether your goals are based in love, in truth and under your control.

While it is easier to see material objects—'stuff'—and, of course, because 'stuff' is promoted and marketed as the keys to success, we recognize that 'unseen' items are what we really desire. Being able to design goals whose pursuit and achievement produce a sense of increasing effectiveness, inspire us to add our value to situations to make things better, to support and protect our families and associates, to create work all, etc., add a level of worth to our lives that 'stuff' could never match.

The Success Codes Program teaches you how to determine these and how to set what we call TruLove goals.
External Focus
You may have heard Dr. Loyd and others talk about the success rate of generic success programs. We at the Success Codes believe that many of those programs discount the importance of our internal states. Some of these other programs teach that you will be happy once you have achieved the external manifestations of success such as wealth, possessions, social approval and status.

Groundbreaking research by Dan Gilbert, Ph.D. (a professor at Harvard University) concludes that expectations are a "happiness killer" - these are primarily your external circumstances. They are a happiness killer because they put you into an immediate and chronic state of stress. This means that they are also a "success killer", because stress makes it almost impossible to become holistically successful (finances, health, happiness and great relationships). On the other hand, an internal focus, giving up expectations, causes stress to melt away and success becomes almost inevitable. You are now in a state of flow, harmony, love, peace, etc. This is the internal power that produces external results.

Trying to achieve the external results without the internal power just won't work. It would be similar to vacuuming the rug without the vacuum cleaner being plugged in - lots of activity and work, but with little or no results. Professor William Tiller (Stanford University physicist) says that the unseen internal is ALWAYS the parent of the seen external - no exceptions. However, most success and self-help programs teach an external focus for success. Based on the research, this is literally teaching failure. It's no wonder that these types of programs have a failure rate of approximately 97%, according to industry insiders and experts.

We have found that virtually every program that taught an external goal focus also taught that the way to do this correctly is through willpower. However, Bruce Lipton, Ph.D. (Stanford Medical School cellular biologist) in his best-selling book, "The Biology of Belief", states that the odds of trying to change the unconscious and subconscious beliefs that are keeping us from being successful by willpower are roughly a million to one. According to Dr. Lipton, you almost have to have a literal mechanism that can find and fix that negative programming (much like a computer antivirus program would remove computer viruses). It just doesn't happen through willpower. So, in order to become truly successful or more successful, your success must come through your internal focus, not dependent on willpower. Voila, this is a great description of the Success Codes.
Goal Setting
Setting goals is an important part of any Success Program however we at the Success Codes believe that the reason why many traditional goal setting processes often fail they fail to take into consideration the most important part of goal setting. The Success Codes Program asks you to consider whether your goals are based in love, in truth and under your control.

While it is easier to see material objects”'stuff' ând, of course, because 'stuff' is promoted and marketed as the keys to success, we recognize that 'unseen' items are what we really desire. Being able to design goals whose pursuit and achievement produce a sense of increasing effectiveness, inspire us to add our value to situations to make things better, to support and protect our families and associates, to create work all, etc., add a level of worth to our lives that 'stuff' could never match.

The Success Codes Program teaches you how to determine these and how to set what we call TruLove goals.
 
Success Orientation
We at the Success Codes believe that it is important to have a success orientation in order to be successful. Often past experiences of failure or not achieving success are stronger than our beliefs in the possibility of our success. Belief in yourself and your abilities to achieve your goals and dreams are important components of success.

We need to be able to look at our past experiences as the education necessary for our success today. If we do, this will allow us to drop the guilt, regret, and self-rejection. Gaining value from the past strengthens and supports our next steps on the success journey, a journey that continues until our last physical breath.

If we don't effectively use the experiences we have had, we will be dragging our past like so much unfortunate baggage, handicapping ourselves, draining our own energy, and weakening our resolve to be successful.

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