Your Overall Score is 247 out of a possible 300
Your Scaled Score is +5 on a scale of -10 to +10
Life
is good - most of the time! You do more than just cope and get by. You
are living your life with love, joy, and peace - not all of the time,
but regularly. You have your struggles, but you usually deal with them
effectively. You are a positive influence on those around you. Life to
you is not just about coping - it's about being your best. There may be a
couple of areas that have held you back. By healing the issues of your
heart, you can reach the top of the mountain!
In the area of Forgiveness, you scored 19
Your Scaled Score is +4 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
realize that forgiveness of past hurts and losses sets you free to
enjoy the present and build a bright future. You choose to focus on
seeing the best in yourself and others.
In the area of Healthy Actions, you scored 21
Your Scaled Score is +6 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
make choices based in love and truth and your heart and integrity line
up with your desires and actions. You are content to be seen as who you
truly are.
In the area of Transforming Beliefs, you scored 21
Your Scaled Score is +6 on a scale of -10 to +10
You have few negative beliefs blocking your success. You resonate hope, confidence, peace and joy.
In the area of Love, you scored 24
Your Scaled Score is +9 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
understand that the love that builds success is altruistic, honest,
generous and compassionate. You believe in yourself and care about
others.
In the area of Joy, you scored 24
Your Scaled Score is +9 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
have found that joy flows from a sense of hope, gratitude and the
possibility of everyday miracles. You know that you are a person of
worth regardless of outside circumstances.
In the area of Peace, you scored 23
Your Scaled Score is +8 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
have a sense of peace and well-being. You trust that your future can
bring wonderful things as you let go of old harmful memories and
actions.
In the area of Patience, you scored 15
Your Scaled Score is 0 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
may sometimes get frustrated and angry that you are not successful
enough. You may have trouble waiting patiently for things to happen. You
can learn to set true love goals and find peace and joy in your life.
In the area of Kindness, you scored 18
Your Scaled Score is +3 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
may feel sensitive to perceived rejection from others and have some
difficulty either being kind to yourself or others. This can bring a
sense of emptiness to any success you experience You might feel that you
don't have much value to offer the world. As you let go of the old
painful memories and bring peace and love into your heart you can accept
people as they are and be kind to yourself and others.
In the area of Goodness, you scored 22
Your Scaled Score is +7 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
easily feel gratitude for what is in your life and know that you bring
value to the world. You look for the goodness in others and in
circumstances and are appreciative all that life has to offer.
In the area of Trust, you scored 18
Your Scaled Score is +3 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
may believe that life is not fair and that it is not safe to trust
others. You may have a need to control others and situations. As you
release old hurtful memories you can build your confidence in yourself
and your ability to trust others.
In the area of Humility, you scored 18
Your Scaled Score is +3 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
may be comparing yourself either positively or negatively to others.
You may believe you have to manipulate others to be successful. You
might not believe that you are OK unless other people think that you
are. You can achieve success when you let go of the guilt, shame or
wrongful pride that are caused by old negative cellular memories.
In the area of Self Control, you scored 24
Your Scaled Score is +9 on a scale of -10 to +10
You live a life of balance, feeling confident in your value and your choices. You believe in yourself and others.
The Internal States score is 25 out of a possible score of 30
Your Scaled Score is +7 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
are usually aware of your emotions and how you might be responding to
situations in the outside world, but you don't blame your emotions on
others or situations. You can manage your emotions most of the time and
are quick to seek balance. You value the information that your emotions
can give you.
You appreciate the dynamic nature of life, internal
and external. As you manage the 'give and take' of energy that is
required to cause the effects you want, you are developing resilience
and respect for yourself and others.
Using the Success Codes Program can help you be in the positive states of forgiveness, love, joy and peace more of the time.
The External Focus score is 25 out of a possible score of 30
Your Scaled Score is +7 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
may understand that it is not your external circumstances that
determine how you feel. Although you desire to be more successful you
don't believe that it is just luck and circumstances that affect
success. You believe that you can influence your life and that your
internal states are more important than your external circumstances.
You
are becoming aware that you, yourself, are your greatest asset. Without
you-- the asset-- there will be no success, no happiness. You are
starting to appreciate that what is 'out there' is out there, but what
is 'in here', in you, is key.
The Success Codes Program can help you focus on the internal states of love, peace and joy that often influence our success.
The Goal Setting Score is 29 out of a possible score of 30
Your Scaled Score is +10 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
find it easy to set goals and to imagine achieving them. Your goal
setting often includes the internal states of peace and happiness as you
focus on goals that are within your control.
Your goals tend to
be internal. You frequently achieve them, and they satisfy you. What's
more, the power of the positive inward state tends to produce positive
circumstances in your life.
You are aware of the good feelings
possible from using yourself and your talents to solve problems, help
others, and improve situations. You know those particular types of peace
and contentment that can come from focusing on the needs of others
rather than just yourself.
You can use the Success Codes Program
to learn how to remove the blocks to setting TruLove Goals and achieving
success in all areas of your life.
The Success Orientation Score is 28 out of a possible score of 30
Your Scaled Score is +9 on a scale of -10 to +10
You
usually believe in yourself and your ability to succeed. You know that
you can overcome past situations in which you were not successful. You
believe you can do what it takes to be successful again.
High
vibrational images of you as successful come forward more easily from
your inventory of mental-emotional images. You are becoming skillful at
choosing what to focus on regarding you, success and what you can be
doing. You know your ability to direct your attention and intention
while maintaining your equilibrium has gotten better. As they improve
still more, you are guaranteed greater levels of success.
You can
use the Success Codes Program to remove the blocks caused by old
memories and beliefs that may interfere with your success.
Forgiveness
Unforgiveness
and forgiveness may be the most critical issues in anyone's life. Dr.
Alex Loyd, the founder of the Healing Codes, says that in all the years
that he was lecturing and counseling he had never seen a significant
health issue where there was not an unforgiveness problem. Then he met
Dr. Ben Johnson, who had been lecturing all over the world on cancer,
and Dr. Ben said that he'd never seen cancer where there was not an
unforgiveness problem. Dr. Alex and Dr. Ben note that they have talked
to ministers, doctors, therapists, and Practitioners of all types who
also shared that they have seen unforgiveness at the root of just about
every problem they've ever experienced.
Now here's a secret
about unforgiveness: it often hides behind anger, fear, sadness, and
other things like that. So if you think you don't have unforgiveness
issues ask yourself, "Who do I feel some anger related to, or sadness,
or fear?" You'll usually find unforgiveness at the bottom of those
things. Unforgiveness issues can be toward self.
They can be
toward other people. They can be toward God. Or, they can be in reverse
of that. They can be feeling like God has not or will not forgive you.
Feeling like other people have not forgiven you whether they have or
not. Any of those can be the crucial cellular memory that blocks our
health or blocks our success. This unforgiveness and the memories that
contain this unforgiveness block our healing. They block our success.
Why? Because they are destructive memories that are not truth and love.
They are lies and selfishness.
It's interesting too, that the
actual word "forgiveness" if you look back to the original language
means to "cut the rope" or "untie the rope." So unforgiveness means we
are literally tied to the thing or the person that we refuse to forgive.
Even if the person is not willing to forgive us, we can cut that rope.
The Unforgiveness Category can be absolutely huge.
The
foundation for an abundant life of love, joy and peace is forgiveness.
Healing unforgiveness is absolutely essential for healing and for
success.
Healthy Actions
Harmful
Actions are desires and behaviors we continue to repeat even though
they take us further away from what we want in life. What determines
whether an action is healthy or not is the reason why we do it. If our
success goals are motivated by selfishness or fear, it will be
difficult, if not impossible for us to find lasting joy and fulfillment
in success.
Establishing a foundation of healthy actions based
on healthy goals and healthy choices leads to living your life in truth
and love and thus there is no limit to the success you can achieve and
the abundance you can attract.
Transforming beliefs
If
you are familiar with the Healing Codes, you know that we believe that
stress causes illness and disease as Dr. Bruce Lipton, cellular
biologist at Stanford University found. He also found that the thing
that always causes stress is a wrong belief. Now those wrong beliefs are
embedded in our cellular memories. Dr. Lipton goes on to say that if
you can heal that wrong belief, the stress goes away and the immune
system in the body can heal everything even genetic illnesses and
disease. We also believe that when you heal the stress of wrong beliefs
and replace them with Transforming Beliefs, then you also heal the thing
that is blocking the success and prosperity in life. Why? Because
stress drains your energy and it dumbs you down and it causes you to
come at everything from a negative perspective. Well, how in the world
are you going to be successful when you can't think straight, you don't
have any energy and you're coming at everything from a negative
perspective? Every negative thing flows from fear.
And the wrong
belief, according to Dr. Lipton's research, causes us to be afraid when
we should not be afraid. So what comes from fear? Anger, sadness,
depression, manipulation, dishonesty, every crime that is ever
committed., as well as fear of success, fear of failure, fear of other
things. So this category can absolutely change your life.
Some
of the unhealthy beliefs are: "I'm unlovable. I'm insignificant. I'm
flawed. I'm hopeless. I'm worthless. Something bad is going to happen.
Something must change right now for me to be okay. People are going to
take advantage of me. I am bad. I'm not good enough. I'm unforgivable.
People are out to get me. I must be in control. It's not fair. People
must think well of me for me to be okay. I can't do it. I'm not capable.
Others should do it for me."
Those are the unhealthy beliefs
that block us from living the life we want to live. And that, when they
are healed, can change our lives forever. Because those wrong beliefs
create stress that causes every problem that we have: illness and
disease, failure, lack of finances, poor relationships, you name it.
Let's
look at the Transforming beliefs. I am lovable. I am significant. I'm
whole. I'm a person of worth regardless of my circumstances or what
anybody else thinks. I have unbounded hope for the future. Wonderful
things are in store for me. My future is not tied to the past. I am
free. I am always okay. Even though I'm always learning, growing and
getting better, I am satisfied and content right now. I love everyone.
Everyone is different, but all have worth and value. I will receive all
good things by surrendering to love and truth. I can lay down control. I
don't have to try to be someone I'm not in order to be loved. I will
believe and live the truth of who I am. I am capable. I can do it. I
don't have to get others to do it for me. I have a say over my life.
Which
of these beliefs would you rather hold? How would you rather live?
Well, that is why we want to heal those destructive beliefs, and to
infuse the healthy ones. We promise you, if you do that in just this
category, you will never, ever, ever be the same.
Success Foundation Codes and Success Building Codes
The first three facets of the Success Codes are called the Foundations for Success
because they are the foundation for building a life based on love, joy
and peace. They are Forgiveness, Healthy Actions, and Transforming
Beliefs.
The nine Success Building Codes are aimed at helping you bring your every goal and dream into harmony as you operate from integrity.
Love
The
Love that builds success is altruistic, honest, generous and
compassionate. At the base is love for yourself and then building
relationships based in compassion and respect.
In this category are the negative experiences of unforgiveness, a feeling of insignificance and resentment.
The damaging action is selfishness (which is not the same as loving yourself).
The limiting beliefs are: I am unlovable. I am insignificant. I am flawed.
When
you use the Block Breaker Code you can focus on the experiences,
actions and ideas that correct the negative issues you've identified.
The positive experiences are: forgiveness, significance, compassion and empathy.
The transforming beliefs are: I am lovable. I am significant. I am whole.
The healthy actions are: Loving myself and others, and being committed to the truth.
We want to get rid of the negatives and infuse the positives so that we can live lives filled with love, and truth.
Joy
Joy
may include happiness, but it is much more than happiness. Happiness
often depends on external circumstances, whereas joy is an internal
state. The positive energy of joy attracts positive people and
circumstances to it.
The negative experiences are: sadness, depression, feeling inferior, worthless, and flawed.
The limiting beliefs: I am hopeless. I am worthless. Life is hopeless.
The positive experiences are: happiness, excitement, exhilaration, confidence, strength, wholeness and self-worth.
The healthy actions are: Being motivated by truth and love in everything I do. Believing in my power to start each day anew.
The transforming beliefs are: I am a person of worth regardless of any circumstances. I have unbounded hope for the future.
So
the negative experiences and limiting beliefs are what The Block
Breaker Codes work on in this category to remove stress and destructive
memories in those areas. The Success Code infuses the positive energy of
joy with the sense of hope, gratitude and the possibility of everyday
miracles.
Peace
Of
all the positive aspects of The Codes: Forgiveness, Healthy Beliefs,
Joy, Love, Patience, etc, peace is the only one that you really can't
manufacture by your own will power. Peace is the test. Peace is the
indicator of whether you have destructive memories or healthy ones or
both about any issue. Try it. Think about almost any issue in your life
and judge by the peace that you feel whether you have negative or
positive stuff about that. It absolutely works.
The opposite of
peace is anxiety, fear, or worry. Tom Brokaw, a former televisions news
announcer once said, "Anxiety is the issue of our age." This category is
designed to heal those cellular memories and the stress that create
anxiety, worry, and fear.
The negative experiences are: anxiety, and worry.
The limiting beliefs are: Something bad is going to happen. The future will be like the past. I am not okay.
The
positive experiences are: a sense of peace and restfulness; that
indescribable feeling that everything is OK, just the way it should be.
The
transforming beliefs are: Wonderful things are in store for me. My
future is not tied to the past. I am free. I am always okay.
The
positive aspects: that wonderful feeling that all is okay. Wow, don't
we all wish we had that day in and day out? Well, you can. Restfulness.
The healthy actions of seeking win/win situations in my relationships
and all my dealings. Focusing on good things that are related to the
future, not the bad things of the past. Focusing on the present. Pay
attention to Peace as an indicator of where you are in not only this
category but any category. It's a wonderful, wonderful tool. It's kind
of like the flashing light on your dashboard that tells you "Oh oh! I've
got destructive memories about this because my peace is gone." You can
use that as a very helpful tool.
Patience
This
is a crucial category because the body system that is affected by the
non-physical cellular memories and stress in this category is the immune
system. And if you've heard Dr. Ben Johnson and Dr. Loyd speak you know
that the key to healing anything, including success issues or
relationship issues, is that the immune system is working the way it's
supposed to. Patience issues tend to directly impact the immune system
in our experience.
Patience really tells us a lot of times if
we have good goals or bad goals. Here's how. The evidence that you have a
wrong goal is anger. Where does anger come from? Impatience. That's the
number one emotion related to this category. What's a good goal and
what's a bad goal? A good goal is one that is rooted in truth and love. A
bad goal is one that rooted in selfishness, fear and deception.
Here's
how this all ties together. If your goal is based in truth and love and
it doesn't happen, you're not going to be angry because the whole thing
was about truth and love. You may say it's about truth and love when
really it's not. It's really about selfishness and fear and deception.
Then, if that goal becomes blocked, you will get angry. If it's truly
focused in truth and love, you weren't in it for the result anyway
because truth and love it not about results. Truth and love is about the
process. It's about doing what is truthful, loving myself and the
people around me right now, not about the result. Impatience, and the
thing that comes from impatience, anger is a pretty good indicator of
having a wrong goal in the first place. I become angry or impatient when
that goal is blocked.
Patient people know that achieving a goal can take time. A block in this area can make it difficult to pay attention to detail.
The
negative experiences are: impatience, anger, frustration, insecurity,
desire for love substitutes. Love substitute is something we settle for
because we don't believe we're going to get what we really want right
now which is love. A love substitute can be anything; reading a book,
eating an ice-cream cone. Those things aren't bad, but if they're done
for a love substitute they're bad.
The limiting belief is: Something has to change right now for me to be okay.
The positive experiences: contentment, satisfaction, security.
The healthy actions content to wait for something better and be able to wait in peace.
The transforming belief: Even though I'm always growing, learning and getting better I am satisfied and content right now.
Healing
the destructive memories in this category means that you don't have to
wait for tomorrow in order to be okay. You don't have to have this or
that in order to be okay. You're okay right now. In order to live that
we've got to get rid of those negative things we're believing that are
lies and fear based and selfish and infuse the love and truthful
positive.
Kindness
The
biggest issues of our life that drive everything else either in a good
way or in a bad way are our identity issues; who we believe we are. Am I
good? Am I bad? Can I do it? Can I not do it? Are other people going to
love me? Are they not? Am I attractive, unattractive? All of those "I
am.." things and a lot of "Others are.." things and how those two
interact are the focus of this category.
Kindness and the next
category, Goodness are the two identity categories. As these two
categories go, very often that's how you go. People with abusive
situations who have grown up in very difficult, traumatic situations,
many times need to spend a mountain of time in the Kindness category
because that's where rejection is. Rejection, in our opinion, is the
single biggest issue any of us have in our life. The thing we need most
is love and the thing that makes us most feel unloved and unlovable is
rejection and perceived rejection. You can't control what happened when
you were younger. But we can still heal that and you have the life you
would have had if you had been treated in that wonderful, kind way. Take
time to take care of yourself and value others. So these are critical
categories.
The negative experiences of this category: rejection, hurt, fear (fear comes from hurt and rejection).
The
limiting beliefs: People will take advantage of me, if you have been
rejected. People are too sensitive, if you are the one who rejects
others.
The positive experiences: Total and unconditional acceptance of myself and others.
The healthy actions: A smiling face.
The
transforming beliefs: I love everyone. Everyone is different but all
have worth and value. I want more truth and love relationships.
It
is very important to clear out these destructive cellular memories. We
need to defuse our destructive identities and infuse loving, truthful,
healthy identities that help us heal help us achieve the success we want
in life.
Goodness
This
is the second category of the two identity categories of The Codes.
This one, if you have a problem with category number 7, Kindness, which
is also the rejection category, you're almost certainly going to have a
problem in this category which is Goodness. Almost everyone who has been
rejected believes they are bad or that they are not good enough.
Dr,
Loyd says: "Tracey, my wife, who was clinically depressed for twelve
years, is one of the best people I have ever known and just about
everybody that knows her says that too. But she felt bad, like she had
her whole life because the message she got growing up was that if she
was not perfect, then she wouldn't be loved. So one little tiny thing
for her made her feel like she was bad. And of course that's not the
truth." We need to clear away those cellular memories and that stress
that they cause.
The negative experiences are: fear, and shame.
The limiting beliefs are: I am bad or I am not good enough. I am unforgivable.
The positive experiences are: thankfulness and gratitude.
The healthy actions: Looking for the good-always.
The transforming beliefs are: I am good, forgiven, clean, and built for love.
These
are two huge categories, Kindness and Goodness. If we're going to make
any headway with our success and with our health, we have to heal our
identity. We have to believe the truth about who we are instead of the
lies from our faulty programming.
Trust
This
category is critical for so many reasons. It is the category of belief.
Anything is possible if you believe. We always do what we believe 100%
of the time. In our opinion there are three aspects of belief: faith,
trust and hope.
Faith is based on what has happened in the
past. It affects whether we're going to have faith in ourselves, in
other people, in circumstances, in God, in government. We base so many
things on our past experiences. Those experiences have great control
over what we do now and what we plan for the future because they are
based on what's happened in the past.
Trust is what we believe
about what's happening in our lives right now. "Am I safe? Am I not
safe? Am I happy? Am I at peace? Am I in danger? What do I need to be
doing now? Can I do it?"
Hope is the third aspect of belief. It
is focused in the future. All of these work together. We can't have
hope if we don't have faith. If our past is all messed up and is all
negative and full of trauma and depression and anxiety and all that sort
of thing, then we're not going to be very hopeful about the future.
We're going to tend to think that our future will be like the past.
Healing
these beliefs affects all three. It affects faith, trust and hope. It
affects your past, your present and your future. As we're defusing our
destructive memories, deprogramming, reprogramming our destructive
memories, we're actually changing our past. You've heard the thing,
"Perception is everything." We believe that to a point. All our memories
are perceptions. A lot of our memories are not true. They're full of
lies. What we remember as truth may not even be what happened. We don't
believe that perception is everything because there is truth. There is
something that actually happened. The sun is either out today or it's
not. I'm either here or I'm not. Yes, perception is huge and reality is
huge, too.
The negative experiences of this category: distrust and being judgmental.
The damaging action: attempts to pull others down.
The limiting beliefs are: People are out to get me. I must be in control. It's not fair.
The positive experiences are: faith in the past, trust in the present and hope in the future.
The healthy actions: Believing in truth and love always. Being non-judgmental.
The transforming beliefs are: I will receive all good things by surrendering to love and truth. I can lay down control.
A
note on control: Is some control good? Yes. There are some areas that
are really good for us to control. But, we are supposed to be trusting
people as far as our relationships. You can't love without trust. If you
can't trust, you probably can't love either. They go hand in hand. A
controlling person is not a loving one. It's one that will rub other
people the wrong way almost 100% of the time given enough time. We want
to love, not control at least in the unhealthy way.
If you can
master this category, heal the negative, and instill the positive, the
trust, belief, faith and hope, this can release tremendous power in your
life for success and health. You might consider this one of the major
power categories. We all want power which leads to results. This is a
power category.
Humility
We
believe that Humility is one of the most misunderstood things in life.
We tend to think that it's someone who always has their head bowed down,
who doesn't stick up for themselves. We do not believe that's what
humility is. We believe that humility really is about believing the
truth about who you are. In other words it's a direct result of the
Kindness and Goodness categories that are the identity categories. As
those two categories go, so will Humility. Humility is not being
arrogant and conceited and always trying to force my way and stuff like
that. We always think of that. Also, it's not believing that I'm
inferior and that you're better than me or that I can't do what you can
do. I can't succeed and be successful. Being humble does not mean I
can't be a performer or someone that does stuff up front. Humility means
that I believe exactly the truth about who I am. I'm not better than
anybody else. I'm not worse than anybody else. I can do anything that
I'm called to do in truth and love. Humility is believing the truth that
you are a person of value and worth and you can do great things in your
life, whatever those great things are that you are called to, that you
are not inferior to anybody but also that you are not superior. So you
should embrace everyone in love and truth. That's what humility really
is. If we have true humility, which means believing the truth about who I
am, the next category Self Control, becomes easy. This is the key to
the next category.
The negative experiences are: guilt, shame, wrongful pride.
The
damaging actions: Taking whatever means are necessary to get people to
think a certain way about me; manipulating people to get what I want and
need.
The limiting belief: People must think well of me for me to be okay.
The
positive experiences are: My belief in the true identity of myself and
others. I believe the truth about myself and that allows me to love.
The healthy actions: Loving people and seeking the truth.
The
transforming belief: I don't have to try to be someone I'm not in order
to be loved. I will believe and live the truth of who I am.
If
I'm really living in the Humility category the way I should be, it
doesn't matter what anybody thinks of me. Yea, sure, it's nice if they
think good stuff. I don't care. That's not what is motivating and
driving me. I just want to live in truth and love and do what I need to
do in my life.
Self-Control
This
one is an issue for almost everybody. We want to have self control and
we have to have self control to accomplish just about anything in our
life as far as success and healing. Here's the ironic part. The self
control flows naturally out of giving up control.
It is doing
what we want to do and what takes us toward love, and our goals, and our
dreams, and our visions, and not doing the things that we shouldn't do
that will keep us from those goals and dreams.
The virtue
obviously is self-control but it can be either side. Self-control means
balance. It doesn't mean what we think of when we normally think of
self-control, which is, "Ok, I'm going to pull myself up by my
bootstraps and I'm going to…" That's really not what it means. The
healthier place is to give up control and go into trust, but there are
things that we have to do and things that we don't do. The key is where
is it flowing from? If it's flowing from the right place, which is truth
and love and belief, and the power that comes from those things, then
the self-control will be easy. It will flow; it will not be onerous or
burdensome kind of thing. It will be natural and will feel right and
will not be like pushing a rock up hill. However, if we are coming from a
place of fear and believing untruths about our self and our world and
our circumstances, then trying to have appropriate balance and
self-control will be very difficult, and it will be like pushing a rock
up hill and we'll usually push it so far up hill and that rock will roll
back down the hill and it will roll over us right at the first on the
way down. We will be frustrated and bloodied and bruised and our natural
inclination will be, "Boy, I sure don't want to do that again."
Self-control means balance, coming from a place of love and truth and
belief.
The negative experiences are: laziness, entitlement, and helplessness.
The damaging actions: manipulation, deceit, giving up.
The limiting beliefs: I can't do it, I'm not capable, others should do it for me, and it's not fair.
The positive experiences: Quiet confidence.
The healthy actions are: positive actions empowered by truth and love and my calling in life.
The transforming beliefs are: I am capable. I can do it. I don't have to get others to do it for me. I have a say over my life.
Dr.
Loyd comments on the two aspects of self-control: "Tracey, my wife,
grew up believing, "I can't do it, and I'm not capable." I grew up more
with the "others should do it for me," the entitlement. But both of
those are paralyzing. So Tracey's natural tendency was to be a
perfectionist out of that, to try to do it all perfectly in order to get
love, even though she didn't believe that she could. I would tend to be
lazy and try to get others to do it for me. But those are both
manifestations of the same self-control problem, but the self-control
itself is a symptom that tells what is going on in our life. That's
coming out of believing the truth about myself and my life and my world
and coming from a place of love, and joy, and peace, and truth. If I'm
not doing self-control things in balance it means I'm coming from the
place of fear and untruth.
Internal States
Many
success programs focus mainly on the "external trappings" of success:
wealth, possessions, social approval, status, etc., and neglect the
internal states that are the true movers to and measures of success. To
us, relying on external factors is like spending all our time polishing
the outside of a vehicle hoping that will get us what we want. That time
and effort would be better spent on the 'engine' that propels us
forward and closes the gap between us and our success. The Success Codes
Program can help you focus on the internal states of love, peace and
joy that often influence our success.
As Dr. Loyd says, "For 3
years, I searched all over to find a success program to refer our
Healing Code clients to because so many were asking for that after their
health issue healed. I couldn't find a single one that worked
consistently. I then discovered why. According to research out of
Stanford Medical School (Bruce Lipton, Ph.D.), if you are trying to heal
old negative cycles in your life through willpower, your odds of
success are approximately one in a million. Research from Harvard (Dan
Gilbert, Ph.D.) found that "expectations are a happiness killer, because
the instant you focus on external expectations as your goal, you have
just put yourself into a chronic state of stress, until you achieve that
thing or not." Virtually every program I could find instructed people
to do one or both of these things in order to become successful – to
have external expectations, and use willpower to make them happen. So, I
was then not surprised to learn from industry experts and insiders that
there is an approximate 97% failure rate in the success/self-help
industry. They are literally teaching people how to fail, not how to
succeed."
In contrast, true success requires 3 things every
time. 1. You must deprogram failure routines (much like computer
viruses, but inside the person). 2. You must reprogram (similar to
computer software) for success. Both 1 and 2 have to be done
"automatically" in the unconscious and subconscious. They cannot usually
be done by willpower. Both 1 and 2 are focused on the internal state,
from which true success comes, not external expectations, which produce
failure. 3. You must overlay a conscious blueprint that is based on what
Dr. Loyd calls the "Spiritual Laws of Nature" (these are not religious
laws), which you cannot violate and get away with it any more than you
can violate gravity by jumping off a building and get away with it.
If
you successfully accomplish all 3, success happens virtually every
time. In fact, you will tend to become successful even if you try not to
because you are now "programmed for success". This brand of success, in
our experience, is typically beyond and better than what the person had
imagined – it is the perfect success for that person.
Success
is a journey rather than a single point destination. To us, enjoying
the journey makes embarking on more journeys possible and attractive.
Improving the conditions of our internal states is like having a vehicle
that will function well as the environments change, as they inevitably
do in daily life. None of us wants our internal states to be 'slamming
on the brakes', urging us to go off-track, giving us wrong directions or
telling us to quit because we just don't have what it takes to be
successful.
In the Success Codes Program you will find that we
believe that success is the internal states of love, joy, peace,
goodness, trust, etc. The Success Codes Program can help you remove the
blocks to success and enhance these positive internal states.
We
believe that the reason why many traditional goal setting processes
fail is because they fail to consider the most important parts of goal
setting. The Success Codes Program asks you to consider whether your
goals are based in love, in truth and under your control.
While
it is easier to see material objects—'stuff'—and, of course,
because 'stuff' is promoted and marketed as the keys to success, we
recognize that 'unseen' items are what we really desire. Being able to
design goals whose pursuit and achievement produce a sense of increasing
effectiveness, inspire us to add our value to situations to make things
better, to support and protect our families and associates, to create
work all, etc., add a level of worth to our lives that 'stuff' could
never match.
The Success Codes Program teaches you how to determine these and how to set what we call TruLove goals.
External Focus
You
may have heard Dr. Loyd and others talk about the success rate of
generic success programs. We at the Success Codes believe that many of
those programs discount the importance of our internal states. Some of
these other programs teach that you will be happy once you have achieved
the external manifestations of success such as wealth, possessions,
social approval and status.
Groundbreaking research by Dan
Gilbert, Ph.D. (a professor at Harvard University) concludes that
expectations are a "happiness killer" - these are primarily your
external circumstances. They are a happiness killer because they put you
into an immediate and chronic state of stress. This means that they are
also a "success killer", because stress makes it almost impossible to
become holistically successful (finances, health, happiness and great
relationships). On the other hand, an internal focus, giving up
expectations, causes stress to melt away and success becomes almost
inevitable. You are now in a state of flow, harmony, love, peace, etc.
This is the internal power that produces external results.
Trying
to achieve the external results without the internal power just won't
work. It would be similar to vacuuming the rug without the vacuum
cleaner being plugged in - lots of activity and work, but with little or
no results. Professor William Tiller (Stanford University physicist)
says that the unseen internal is ALWAYS the parent of the seen external -
no exceptions. However, most success and self-help programs teach an
external focus for success. Based on the research, this is literally
teaching failure. It's no wonder that these types of programs have a
failure rate of approximately 97%, according to industry insiders and
experts.
We have found that virtually every program that taught
an external goal focus also taught that the way to do this correctly is
through willpower. However, Bruce Lipton, Ph.D. (Stanford Medical
School cellular biologist) in his best-selling book, "The Biology of
Belief", states that the odds of trying to change the unconscious and
subconscious beliefs that are keeping us from being successful by
willpower are roughly a million to one. According to Dr. Lipton, you
almost have to have a literal mechanism that can find and fix that
negative programming (much like a computer antivirus program would
remove computer viruses). It just doesn't happen through willpower. So,
in order to become truly successful or more successful, your success
must come through your internal focus, not dependent on willpower.
Voila, this is a great description of the Success Codes.
Goal Setting
Setting
goals is an important part of any Success Program however we at the
Success Codes believe that the reason why many traditional goal setting
processes often fail they fail to take into consideration the most
important part of goal setting. The Success Codes Program asks you to
consider whether your goals are based in love, in truth and under your
control.
While it is easier to see material
objects—'stuff'—and, of course, because 'stuff' is promoted and
marketed as the keys to success, we recognize that 'unseen' items are
what we really desire. Being able to design goals whose pursuit and
achievement produce a sense of increasing effectiveness, inspire us to
add our value to situations to make things better, to support and
protect our families and associates, to create work all, etc., add a
level of worth to our lives that 'stuff' could never match.
The Success Codes Program teaches you how to determine these and how to set what we call TruLove goals.
Success Orientation
We
at the Success Codes believe that it is important to have a success
orientation in order to be successful. Often past experiences of failure
or not achieving success are stronger than our beliefs in the
possibility of our success. Belief in yourself and your abilities to
achieve your goals and dreams are important components of success.
We
need to be able to look at our past experiences as the education
necessary for our success today. If we do, this will allow us to drop
the guilt, regret, and self-rejection. Gaining value from the past
strengthens and supports our next steps on the success journey, a
journey that continues until our last physical breath.
If we
don't effectively use the experiences we have had, we will be dragging
our past like so much unfortunate baggage, handicapping ourselves,
draining our own energy, and weakening our resolve to be successful.
The Success Codes Program can help you increase your Success orientation.
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